I don’t know if I should stay with him?Jane J asked: I have been in this relationship for six years, three of it married. When I met him, he was going through a bankruptcy for a dot com he had started after he left a mid level position at a software company. We lived in a little town at this point [...] How do I deal with a wife who has secretly in most cases run up over $40,000 in consumer debt?James D asked: Eighteen year otherwise wonderful 2nd marriage for both. Her kids. My kids. She is a professional woman making $60,000 a year. Seperate finances except for joint expenses like mortgage and household expenses. She’s still paying off student loans for two of her adult children who are now [...] |